Photo of the Day

A beautiful model who is always graceful.

Photo Taken by Isom Jacobs.

A few new things on the way!

Hello everyone I took a little vacation from blogging but I collected a lot of skills to help me with what I need. Here are some things to look forward to...

Photography
I do a lot of runway shows so you will see a lot of these photos in my blog along with my other blog on my methods through Black Book4 on medium on the right side of the blog. This summer more creative and performing arts will be shown.

Writing:

I will have a publication coming out, first online then in print if all goes well. More information on that will be explained later today, however it is 3 a.m. and I want to get this off my chest.


Comedy:

This will happen a little later on once the summer hits full flow and I will have some sound bites for everyone to listen to.
Migraines:
 This is what we are here for, my Migraine journal. I will start back doing updates, as my migraines didn't stop but I didn't have time playing catch up to do much writing. 


over all I will show the step by step process of the things I am getting into, which has been very fun, even though there were many king sized setbacks.

Just hit me! Migraines still getting worse

I looked at my last post title and it said four day migraine! and I followed with a six day migraine. Not sure if I am unique but medication is just a band-aid I hope more is not wrong with me but doctors just want a band-aid.

Have been busy, but I will be back!

Hello everyone, I am back on my Migraine medication and it has been contained for the most part. However, it was mostly contained until a week-long migraine burst my winning streak forcing me back on the pills.
Being extremely busy this semester has caused me to lose some valuable connections which caused migraines but ultimately, stress aside, being on a routine during and throughout the day has fought back most of my migraines.
My lesson of the day is, never ever get bored! These breaks for school I will have to stay busy especially winter and summer. That means no oversleeping.

Good day to you all I would love some feed back to all your painful needs and suggestions.

4 Day Migraine

This is the first time a migraine has lasted for 4 days. The odd part was I didnt sleep the whole time I tried to do things because I know too much sleep will keep it going. These have been getting worse over the years in terms on how long they have lasted. I am going to Contact some top specialist on some advice for me and who ever is watching.

The Nice Guy

Are Nice Guys Respected?

I had a conversation recently and I found out that some people do not believe that nice people are respected.

Isom Jacobs

It has come to my attention that nice guys are seen as passive-aggressive and weak. It was a sense as if being nice means being a door mat. The alternative was to be aggressive. In other words to be that aggressive respected person one must be give people a hard time on any disagreement. This is a "you don't have to like me but you will respect me." I only see this as people do not like you and they do not respect you, they may not always challenge you because to them you are just not worth it. The combative person is not the one who is respected just because they will fight you over anything and everything because they are aggressive. 

Me being on the other side, I see people who are aggressive am I weak for not wanting to deal with them? Not even in a situation where these aggressive people are upset with me but being upset over things you cannot change. Sometimes you get frustrated and that is understandable, I cannot deal with someone who cannot control their anger. I am not a big fan of movies so I do not buy wolf-tickets. 

Aggressive Black Man vs. Nice Man

I feel the pressured being a black man to become this aggressive man. We are called to be the protector, provider, the dominant force, and secure. I have seen women set up their own man for a confrontation with other men just to be protected. Mild to moderate jealously is viewed as a bit sexy and that he cares in my experience. I get told that it means that I am something worth protecting by women. I chose to trust her to do the right thing when I am not there, but if I am with someone who thinks what I have previously stated then it puts a stain on the trust. I say this because if a guy is pushing up on your woman and she thinks you do not care, what do you think will stop her then?

Another type of pressure that I have been put under as a black man is "putting your woman in her place." I am an adult so is the women I date. Enough said. 

Migraine!

August 21, 2014

I woke up and went to sleep same time as everyday.
The night before I listened to a bit of music before I went to sleep that was a bit different.
I was a bit stressed over an argument in the romantic section of my life the day before.
Today I went home from work early...I helped my mother with some leaves and branches from a bush and it irritated my skin a lot. Also I did not eat very well today.

My morning meal was a sandwich peanut butter and jelly and a banana.

Afternoon: nothing.

Migraine started before my dinner but I had a burger and fries

My hypothesis: I went more than 6 hours without eating.

Possible triggers: sleeping pattern and today 6 hours without eating.